"I often see people get into the Game, and suddenly change their style of dress and communication. For some people, this works: they transform into really charismatic guys. For others, it backfires: they become twice as awkward as they used to be…. The best way to go about learning this is not to just relax right now and start simply ‘being yourself.’ You have to find your best self first. And once you take all these steps to improve yourself, and become a confident version of your best self, you’re halfway to cool. The other half involves letting go of your inhibitions, and allowing the traits and interests that you once hid to emerge from within your new, confident best self."